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Examples Of Boundaries In life

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 Don't Go though my personal belongings

Don't Criticize me

Don't Make comments about my weight

Don't Take their anger out on me

Don't Humiliate me in front of others

Don't Tell off-color jokes in my company

Don't Invade my personal space

Don't invade my Privacy

Don't A new hairstyle from an old stylist

always go for quality

Peace and quiet while getting a massage

Help around the house

More information before making a purchase

Quiet time to myself

Turn the ringer off on the phone

Take my time returning calls or e-mails

Change my mind

Bow out of a volunteer activity

Cancel a commitment when I'm not feeling well

Reserve a place in my home that is off-limits to others.

stay simple

don't fall for girls sweet talks

don't run after girls, but flirt with them let them come to you.

don't run after relations let them go if they want to go 

don't let people use you

take space be alone if needed

Saying No if needed

Refusing to Take Blame speak back loud

Expect Respect. when treated disrespect get out of the scenario

have your own identity and individuality don't lose it to please others

take help if needed

speak load and let other know how you feel not your thoughts

dictate other about your choose don't let other dictate you

You get to dictate where and with whom you spend your time, alone or apart. Maybe you don’t love going to Monday night football. Establish that Monday nights are your alone time or your weekly wine night with your pals. Perhaps you need to be by yourself for a few days after a big fight; you are within your right to ask for that. 

don't give and take credit money

always take credit for your achievements

Openly express your desire and feelings ,Share fantasies and discuss boundaries on sex to you partner. Honesty and vulnerability are powerful.




17. The Freedom to Express Spiritual Boundaries 

Your beliefs are your own, no matter how much you may or may not have in common with your partner in terms of spirituality or religion. You and your significant other should respect each other’s beliefs, foster and encourage each other’s spiritual growth, and be open to learning about the other’s culture or faith. 


18. The Right to Remain True to Your Principles

Set a boundary with yourself that your principles remain in place no matter who you are dating. Of course, you can change your mind as your conversations with your partner open new doors to new ideas. But you shouldn’t feel pressured to adopt his or her stances out of fear of upsetting them. 


19. The Ability to Communicate Physical Needs

Learn to communicate what your body needs. Are you a vegetarian and don’t want meat in the house? Are you an early riser who needs to be in bed before 10:00 pm? Then make sure your partner respects your physical needs by not making loud noises or watching TV late into the evening.


On the other hand, learn about your significant other’s boundaries. If they prefer a later bedtime, work out an arrangement rather than pressuring them to go to sleep before their biological clock allows them to. 


20. Your Right to Your Material Possessions 

Deciding what to share and what to keep for yourself is never an easy task. Some couples open joint bank accounts, while others forego that for financial independence. Material and financial boundaries are commonplace in every relationship. 


21. Your Ability to Manage Your Own Time

Another relationship boundary to set for yourself is learning to manage your time in a way that doesn’t disrespect your significant other’s.


 healthy boundaries in relationships

When you’re single, you can put off doing the dishes as long as you want. However, in a relationship, your time is not just your own. If you agree to date at 8:00 pm, it’s essential to stick to your word.


That means learning to manage your time respectfully, even when you’re alone. 






 


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